Well first. let me proof this a bit–not trying to be rude, but I just want to make sure I understood everything:
Why do you love dirty slobs so much? Don’t get me wrong, the stories are great and I love to jack off to them. There is just something in turning a clean, preppy guy into what he hated or would have hated. Also, do you feel like your tastes become more extreme in you fetishes over time? I’m 28 and am starting to jack off to harder and hard stuff.
So first, why do I like slobs? I get that question a lot, or a variant on it, and I never quite know how to answer it. A lot of my attraction to these topics has to do with deeper frustrations I have with society, as well as issues I’ve carried around about coming to terms with my own body over the years. All that to say, it’s complicated, and I don’t really have a good answer for you. Mostly, I hate the drive towards a superficial cleanliness and order which is constantly enforced in the world around us, and the barriers that places between individuals and their own bodies. I spend a large chunk of my live afraid of this meat-thing I inhabit–it’s only been in the last few years that I’ve felt comfortable with my body *as a thing*, and not by trying to change it, make it pretty/attractive, or sanitize it. There’s a freedom which is very satisfying, when you can let go of those concerns and surrender to those more basic, bodily needs and functions–which is how I would define a “slob” in broad, general terms. That said, it’s complicated, and I don’t have an easy answer for that.
As for the second question there, I’m only 28 myself. I wouldn’t say that I tastes have really become that more extreme over the years, only because I started out with pretty extreme tastes. What I think happens, is that people, over time, allow themselves to admit that they desire more taboo fetishes and begin to pursue them, though I think the desire was always there, but only being denied.
Bracken's Corner 