AR doesn’t do much for me either, at least not physical AR. I like the idea of losing parts of being an adult that lead to humiliating scenes and loss of control. The idea of having to trust control of your own body to your daddy is something that I find intensely erotic. Do you have any attraction to diapers as a loss of control for yourself, or do you see that as something you would use to control and humiliate someone else?

I get variants on of this question from a lot of people actually, because the assumption is that, in these stories, I must Mary Sue myself into either the submissive or dominant position, when in fact my own interest in these stories is a bit more removed. 

I have no real interest in being a character in these stories–my enjoyment is a bit more…voyeuristic. I enjoy the authorial perspective, and power. I like the fact that I can force these characters to undergo these changes, and that’s where my erotic thrill comes from. I suppose it would lean towards the dominant side of the equation, but I never really see it that way (and when I do imagine myself in these stories, I usually end up in the submissive position, so who really knows).